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.The BDSM world is not one that everyadone underadstands or appreadciadates. As a woman, I have no desire to expeadriadence any level of pain durading intiadmate enocunadters, nor am I able to give up conadtrol of my body so totally — I just can’t trust anyadone to that extent.I’m bisexadual, and know a lot of lesadbians who do enjoy and truly feel this senadsaadtion linkadage between pain and pleaadsure. From what they have said, they worked up gradaduadally, like steps, until they reached a level of diminadishading returns.In other words, no man would go from never havading a foradeign object inserted into his ureadthra to havading someadthing large forced up it. Ureadthra tisadsue in men and women conadtain a lot of senadsaadtion and is capaadble of extreme pleaadsure, as is anal tisadsue. For conadsentading adults, I think it’s great to explore what our bodadies are capaadble of.I have friends who do some mild BDSM and some that engage in pretty hardadcore stuff. Most have had some sort of pain expeadriadence when they were younger, and began to assoadciate the two senadsaadtions, but othaders never had expeadriadenced that type of thing before, but always felt drawn to tryading it.In addiadtion, they tell me that there is an amazading closeadness between partadners because of the type of trust that this sexadual behavadior engenadders. It is very arousading to many — of both sexes regardadless of sexadual oriadenadtaadtion — to be that vuladneradaadble, and/or to be that in conadtrol of the scene. The extreme trust goes both ways, from the peradson who is being domadiadnated, to the one who domadiadnates. The fun is partly the danadger that one or the other will lose conadtrol. It is pure fanadtasy, and is never, ever meant to harm as there is genaderadally always a safe word.I deeply respect and accept folks who enjoy conadsenadsual BDSM action. I also hope that they respect and accept that it is simadply not for me. I’m sorry you received backadlash for your views, I hope your curadrent steladlar blog post will not trigadger the same type of responses.Thank you for such a franka0post.